The Leo Man – Do’s And Don’ts In Relating With A Leo Man

Attracting A Leo Man

Xll Leo 300x300 The Leo Man   Dos And Donts In Relating With A Leo ManWhether or not it is your initial meeting, casual dating, a committed relationship or even inside a marriage, you need to keep in mind how a Leo man thinks. If you know how he thinks, you will be at great advantage in knowing the ways to best expand or rebuild your relationship with him. This is where your awareness of CTypes comes in.

CTypes define the way every person thinks. A Leo man thinks in a different way than the other sun signs of the Zodiac (CTypes). If a women utilizes her more often than not unconscious attraction tactics (behavior) to attract a man, she doesn’t take into account his CType or unique form of thinking. Without an understanding of his CType, she runs a real possibility of doing things that may turn him off rather than making herself irresistible to him. So let’s have a look at the do’s and don’ts in relating with a Leo man.

Try to do more of this with a Leo man:

  • A Leo man is usually going to be tightly linked to his whole life. After all, he created it. Don’t be surprised if he starts to tell you his whole life story when you ask him how he is doing. Be interested in the details of his life. He will love your attention. Praise his creation (his life) when possible.
  • He will be sure of himself. Right or wrong, he’s right. If you want him to value your thoughts and inputs, look for ways to hook in to what already exists in his universe. If he can put his creative mark on your ideas, they become part of his universe and real for him.
  • Tell him that you want to understand him and you want him to understand you. Ask him how to best do this. He wants to be understood and he wants to understand you. He will likely be strongly pulled to the mutual sharing.
  • He may hold himself as open to new ideas. He isn’t, but so what? Praise his openness to new ideas. He’ll love it.
  • Point out to him how he has successfully taken on big responsibilities in his life and that it takes a unique person to handle such responsibilities.
  • Be direct with him without being argumentative. You won’t hurt his feelings. He will appreciate your directness.
  • He’s going to have some need for control. Let him take the lead.
  • In discussion with a Leo man, incorporate regulators. Regulators are subtle expressions, sounds or gestures that make Leo aware of your interest and your appreciation of your interaction and communication with him. Positive words such as “yes”, “good”, and “great” are regulators. Assured sounds like “uh huh” or “umm” are positive regulators. Nodding the head is a helpful regulator. Look for the regulators that work for you and practice them until eventually they come to be one aspect of your affinity-building know-how.

Try to do less of this with a Leo man:

  • He’s going to be sure of himself. Don’t bother arguing with him. You won’t win. One doesn’t win arguments with god.
  • Don’t cut him off when he’s telling you his life story when you wanted to know how his day was. Especially early in the relationship, this will be seen as a lack of value for the universe he has created.
  • Don’t assume he’s caught on to the emotional signs you’re sending. He’s busy running his universe and often misses subtleties. Be direct—with compassion.
  • Don’t unconsciously use negative regulators. Avoid negative words or sounds. Don’t shake your head side to side or roll your eyes. These negative regulators will create separation instead of bringing you closer together.
  • Don’t nag him when he feels overwhelmed with the responsibilities in his life. This is a result of him doing too much of his Leo CType thinking and he has to work his own way out of this.
  • As in many relationships, be careful when pushing for more commitment. This can backfire—bigtime!
  • Avoid being a victim or complaining too much. Most men are turned off by this. If you find yourself being a victim with a partner or potential partner, try to move your thinking toward your opposite CType. This is true relationship-building mastery.

Despite the fact this is only a short outline of how to be desirable to a Leo CType man, you will find these tips to be powerful in initiating, deepening and healing your relationships with the Leo men in your life.

 

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