The Do’s And Don’ts Of Attracting A Taurus Man – What Every Woman Should Know

Building A Relationship With A Taurus Man

9 Taurus3 300x300 The Do’s And Don’ts Of Attracting A Taurus Man – What Every Woman Should KnowNo matter whether it is ones first meeting, normal dating, a committed relationship or even in a marriage, you should to know how a Taurus man thinks. Should you have knowledge of how he thinks, you are going to be at tremendous advantage in understanding the way to best expand or heal your relationship with him. This is where your know-how of CTypes emerges.

CTypes illustrate how every person thinks. A Taurus man thinks in a different way than other sun signs of the Zodiac (CTypes). Any time a women utilizes her mostly unconscious attraction tactics (behavior) to attract a guy, she doesn’t take into account his CType or unique style of thinking. Without an understanding of his CType, she runs an actual danger of doing things that will actually turn him off instead of making herself irresistible to him. So let’s take a look at the do’s and don’ts in connecting with a Taurus man.

The Do’s – Try to do more of this:

  • Tell him that you appreciate men who get things done right. This is right up his alley and he will be drawn to your approval.
  • Tell him that you like to take things slowly in developing relationships so that you can really get to know people before going deeper into the relationship. He will appreciate this because it opens space to do the same with you.
  • Share with him that you like men who are grounded in reality and don’t get carried away by hype or fluff.
  • Ask him what he does well in life. Point out areas where he has mastered things. He might be surprised by his mastery, but he will feel good that you have acknowledged it, too.
  • He may consider himself to be a passionate person or a person who is clear on his life purpose (his Scorpio Opposite thinking). If so, praise his passion and clarity. He will love you for this!
  • Seek opportunities to tell him that he is doing excellent in life and that you appreciate his first-rate work and accomplishments.
  • In discussion with Taurus, incorporate regulators. Regulators are subtle expressions, sounds or gestures that let Taurus be aware of your interest and appreciation of your interaction and communication with him. Positive words such as “yes,” “good,” and “great” are regulators. Assured sounds like “uh huh” or “umm” are positive regulators. Nods of the head are a helpful regulator. Look for the regulators that work for you and practice them until eventually they come to be one aspect of your affinity building know-how.

The Don’ts – Try to do less of this:

  • He is not going to believe anything you say based on faith alone. Don’t push for acceptance when sharing things that he doesn’t readily buy into. Remember, he has to test things for himself in order to make them real.
  • He is a pragmatist and sometimes even repressive, especially in a management or leader role. Emotional pleas may not work with him. Use facts and right action to gain his attention and acceptance.
  • He will often have trouble pinpointing his life purpose or passion for life and feel a little insecure about that fact. This lack of purpose or passion is a result of him doing too much of his Natural Taurus CType thinking and he has to work his own way out of this. Don’t try to “help” him with this. Your help will likely frustrate him. He has difficultly understanding that he can’t “action” his way into purpose and passion.
  • Like in many relationships, be careful pushing for more commitment. This can backfire—big-time, and especially with a Taurus. He will resist being pushed more than most other CTypes.
  • Don’t unintentionally use negative regulators. Stay clear of negative expressions or sounds. Don’t shake your head left and right or roll your eyes. This subtly communicates criticism and produces separation.
  • Avoid being a victim or complaining too much. Most men are turned off by this. If you find yourself being a victim with a partner or potential partner, try to move your thinking toward your opposite CType. This is true relationship building mastery.

Although this is simply a short outline of how to be exciting to a Taurus CType man, you will discover these recommendations to be powerful in creating, deepening and healing your relationships with the Taurus men within your life.

 

 

 

 

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