The Do’s and Don’ts Of Attracting An Aquarius Man

Attracting an Aquarius Man

6 Aquarius3 300x300 The Dos and Donts Of Attracting An Aquarius Man Regardless whether it’s ones initial meeting, informal dating, a committed partnership or even inside a marriage, you need to understand how a Aquarius man thinks. If you recognize how he thinks, you’ll be at wonderful advantage in understanding how to best grow or mend your relationship with him. This is where your know-how of CTypes emerges.

CTypes illustrate the way all of us think. An Aquarius man thinks in different ways than the other sun signs of the Zodiac (CTypes). In cases where a women employs her mostly unconscious attraction technique (behavior) to attract a guy, she is unable to take into account his CType or unique way of thinking. Without an understanding of his CType, she runs an actual chance of doing things that may turn him off rather than making herself appealing to him. So let’s take a look at the do’s and don’ts in relating with a Aquarius man.

Try to do more of this with an Aquarius man:

  • An Aquarius man is usually going to be light, airy, and full of facts. He will love sharing his facts with you and if you have facts to share with him, so much the better. Praise his amazing breadth of knowledge.
  • He will often be fascinated by surfaces. Don’t be surprised if he points out something unique about a surface. Acknowledge that you too have at least some interest in these surfaces. Don’t worry; he won’t be interested in a particular surface for long.
  • He’s going to like new sensations. Travel is often very appealing for him. If you have an opportunity to travel with him, that can be a homerun – an excellent way to deepen a relationship with an Aquarius man.
  • Enjoy his light-heartedness. He will often have a good sense of humor. Laugh a lot together. He will love you for this.
  • Point out to him how he has done some quite meaningful things in his life. If possible, show him how he has really taken a leadership role in some instances, especially social leadership. This is a big deal for an Aquarius man.
  • In discussion with an Aquarius man, incorporate regulators. Regulators are subtle expressions, sounds or gestures that make Aquarius aware of your interest and your appreciation of your interaction and communication with him. Positive words such as “yes,” “good,” and “great” are regulators. Assured sounds like “uh huh” or “umm” are positive regulators. Nodding the head is a helpful regulator. Look for the regulators that work for you and practice them until eventually they come to be one aspect of your affinity-building know-how.

Try to do less of this with an Aquarius man:

  • He’s going to be on the surface of things, including his emotions. Don’t try to force him deeper into his feelings. This can send him running before you have a chance to deepen the relationship, especially early in the relationship.
  • He can be fickle. Avoid taking this personally. It’s not about you.
  • If you have a disagreement, don’t try to resolve the issue on the spot. He’ll likely respond to emotional pleas with facts or questions about why you are upset, with on-the-spot resolution being a scary place for him to venture. Instead, give him some space where he can assess the situation, access his feelings, and return to you with the issue at least partially resolved in his own mind. The space may be good for you, too. It’s amazing what a little time and space can do in resolving most relationship problems with outward CTypes.
  • Don’t unconsciously use negative regulators. Avoid negative words or sounds. Don’t shake your head side to side or roll your eyes. These negative regulators will create separation instead of bringing you closer together.
  • Don’t nag him when he feels stuck in life. This is a result of him doing too much of his Aquarius CType thinking and he has to work his own way out of this.
  • As in many relationships, be careful when pushing for more commitment. This can backfire—bigtime!
  • Avoid being a victim or complaining too much. Most men are turned off by this. If you find yourself being a victim with a partner or potential partner, try to move your thinking toward your opposite CType. This is true relationship-building mastery.

While this is only a brief outline of how to become captivating to a Aquarius CType man, you will find these recommendations to be powerful in building, deepening and mending your relationships with the Aquarius men affecting your life.

This article completes the “Do’s and Don’t” series for relating with a specific CType man. If you want to read about relating with any of the 12 CTypes, we’ve rearranged the site to make it easy to find whatever you need on a specific CType. All the “Do’s and Don’ts” articles will be found under “Articles” and the specific CType you’re interested in, on the right side of our home page. In addition to articles, there is a sort of site map for each CType on left side of the home page.

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